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Be The One Who Loves

Number #1 Relationship Coaching Team – With Stefan Neff & Tomoko Ota Neff

Relationship With Yourself Is So Important…

Why am I seeking love and acceptance from others!!

The best way I know how to express what I am feeling inside my thoughts are to tell you everything I know about happiness…

Why was self-acceptance so so very important to my happiness in the past?
Because my cup of happiness was half empty… – my heart was so lonely with sadness as a child, yes I had so many moments of fun and enjoyment but the sadness overpowered my happy times. Why, because I wanted to feel the love of others.

I wanted to be accepted by others no matter what!

These feeling had overpowered my life on a daily basis throughout my life, always seeking love well, I think we all want to be loved at some point in our lives.

My truth is I didn’t love myself enough to fill my own tank of self-love and care within my life on a daily basis.

That’s why I wasn’t happy…

No god or anyone else could make me happy — I am the only one that could fill my cup up towards happiness…

How do I expect anyone else to give me what I want when I didn’t give it to myself — hmmm… sounds like I was expecting others to make me happy — “YES” well, it was me that was stopping myself from happiness!!

Are you waiting for someone to make you happy? — well, you may wait forever for that to happen in your lifetime, that’s the truth because for those who wait for love will always be disappointed when love doesn’t COME…

What is the measurements of happiness to you?

Is it how many friends you have… Is it how big your house is!!
How nice your car is… well, you may wait for a lifetime for happiness to come into your life if are thinking that way!!

Do you want to wait for a lifetime for self-acceptance or do want to learn how to create your own self-care within yourself…
“Good question I said to the person looking back at me in the mirror of life”!

I believe we all have choices in life towards a happy life…
My question is to you is, when is your happiness coming into your life?

If your answer I don’t know… then that may be the time to accept that happiness isn’t for you!!

If you are waiting for a magical potion to show up on your doorstep from Amazon then you will never be happy… well, that what I was doing in my life, I was waiting for years and years for happiness to show up from somewhere else than within my own heart and soul!!!

Answer these question…

Do you have the courage to be happy?

Do you want to know happiness?

Are you willing to do anything towards happiness?

Would you spend time on yourself?

Would you ask someone to help you help yourself with happiness?

Do you agree or is happiness NOT on your bucket list???

To help you help yourself, my Wife, & I have created a process that works 100% Guaranteed…

We made a choice in our lives to be happy!!

We also know what anger, sadness and unhappiness feelings are all about because we hated life each other and people around us. Until we made a choice to be happy…

You can contact us via email at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 to find out more about creating happiness in your relationship with yourself and others…

 

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Personal Relationship Coaching

Why for so many years did I get upset when I was challenged by my wife…  well, I was afraid of being wrong and to be judged by others, especially the person I loved.

Why was so painful, well I had a subconscious pain point that was stamped within me that I didn’t want to face.

How do I deal with this pain? – Face it accept it otherwise this pain would affect my happiness until I die… Do I want to hold onto these pain points? Yes, because this gave me a reason to feel a thought from my past memories…

So many times in my life I have asked myself, do I really want to live like this and my answer is “NO WAY MAN”… So why do I keep this most upsetting thought? I didn’t believe for one second that I created my own pain but the truth is I do create everything that happens in my life, who else creates my life!! Who else makes me sad or mad?

Not my wife, not my children and definitely not the people that are around me… I do it all on my own with no ones help indeed… 

My question to you is, do you feel like this in your life?

Do you feel punished with fear and upsetting feeling at times?

Are people affecting your happiness?

At some point have you looked into the mirror and asked yourself am I unhappy? Is your life filled with these kinda moments of fear and anxiety? 

If so — there is a solution that my wife and I have created that will fix those issues… 

Do you want to live the life of your desires?

Would you do anything to fix it?

Is having a happy life worth it…

I truly believe so…

I know that my happiness is worth IT!!

To learn more about how you can create happiness in your life, contact us at stefanneff53@gmail.com or PM me to find out how you can stop from feeling upset, mad or sad in your life…

Stefan Oskar Neff Big Bang Soundcloud Podcast

Big Bang Sound Podcast Episode #5 Season Three – The Crazy Life We Live Hosted By Stefan Oskar Neff

 

Welcome too Breakthrough To Success: The Real Truth. This podcast is devoted to getting people and families to be massively successful in all areas of their life. I want you to get ahead, no matter what your circumstances are, and this podcast is going to assist you with understanding exactly how to do that. Learn to build a very successful mindset, a successful family, and a successful you, all at the same time. Each week has a different focus: Week #1: The first week of each month is going to be devoted to self-empowering mindset. Really getting your mind in the game because your mindset is the most important part to being massively successful in your family life.  I’m going to bring on successful ideas that will help people faced the challenges of growing a powerful mindset for people to help themselves to the next level of clear clarity You’re going to learn from me what it takes to get where you want to be.

Our Mission – To create dynamic, easy to follow systems of coaching programs, sessions, groups and systems for people with addictive behaviours that create a powerful learning environment both in personal growth and life skills and inner knowledge of self-acceptance. To abstain from addictive behaviours and grow their mindset to outrageous levels of success. 

Why -There is a ton of struggling and suffering surrounding addictive behaviours today that is impacting people’s financial situations and families. Addictive behaviours in families lives are continually being destroyed because of addictions. It does not have to be this way and through our mission, we want to change the statistic of slipping and failing in the first 45 days of recovery to 99% being successful and having an amazingly positive influence on society and our communities.

Our Vision -To be the world leader and chosen authority in understanding and adding soul and heart into individuals lives, and to dramatically impact the success rate of addictive behaviours through influential relationship building. To improve the inner growth of individuals and the sustainability of abstinence to enhance the life of our clients and their family and the communities that support them.

Podcast Music By:

https://soundcloud.com/vexento

https://www.youtube.com/user/Vexento

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ssvu2yncgWU

Stefan Oskar Neff Big Bang Soundcloud Podcast

Big Bang Sound Podcast Episode #4 Season Three – I Want To Take Over The World

 

Welcome too Breakthrough To Success: The Real Truth. This podcast is devoted to getting people and families to be massively successful in all areas of their life. I want you to get ahead, no matter what your circumstances are, and this podcast is going to assist you with understanding exactly how to do that. Learn to build a very successful mindset, a successful family, and a successful you, all at the same time. Each week has a different focus: Week #1: The first week of each month is going to be devoted to self-empowering mindset. Really getting your mind in the game because your mindset is the most important part to being massively successful in your family life.  I’m going to bring on successful ideas that will help people faced the challenges of growing a powerful mindset for people to help themselves to the next level of clear clarity You’re going to learn from me what it takes to get where you want to be.

Our Mission – To create dynamic, easy to follow systems of coaching programs, sessions, groups and systems for people with addictive behaviours that create a powerful learning environment both in personal growth and life skills and inner knowledge of self-acceptance. To abstain from addictive behaviours and grow their mindset to outrageous levels of success. 

Why -There is a ton of struggling and suffering surrounding addictive behaviours today that is impacting people’s financial situations and families. Addictive behaviours in families lives are continually being destroyed because of addictions. It does not have to be this way and through our mission, we want to change the statistic of slipping and failing in the first 45 days of recovery to 99% being successful and having an amazingly positive influence on society and our communities.

Our Vision -To be the world leader and chosen authority in understanding and adding soul and heart into individuals lives, and to dramatically impact the success rate of addictive behaviours through influential relationship building. To improve the inner growth of individuals and the sustainability of abstinence to enhance the life of our clients and their family and the communities that support them.

Podcast Music By:

https://soundcloud.com/vexento

https://www.youtube.com/user/Vexento

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ssvu2yncgWU

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The Power of Making a Decision | Jack Canfield

 

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Stefan Oskar Neff Big Bang Soundcloud Podcast

Big Bang Sound Podcast Episode #3 Season Three – Think About Money Nothing Else

 

Welcome too Breakthrough To Success: The Real Truth. This podcast is devoted to getting people and families to be massively successful in all areas of their life. I want you to get ahead, no matter what your circumstances are, and this podcast is going to assist you with understanding exactly how to do that. Learn to build a very successful mindset, a successful family, and a successful you, all at the same time. Each week has a different focus: Week #1: The first week of each month is going to be devoted to self-empowering mindset. Really getting your mind in the game because your mindset is the most important part to being massively successful in your family life.  I’m going to bring on successful ideas that will help people faced the challenges of growing a powerful mindset for people to help themselves to the next level of clear clarity You’re going to learn from me what it takes to get where you want to be.

Our Mission – To create dynamic, easy to follow systems of coaching programs, sessions, groups and systems for people with addictive behaviours that create a powerful learning environment both in personal growth and life skills and inner knowledge of self-acceptance. To abstain from addictive behaviours and grow their mindset to outrageous levels of success. 

Why -There is a ton of struggling and suffering surrounding addictive behaviours today that is impacting people’s financial situations and families. Addictive behaviours in families lives are continually being destroyed because of addictions. It does not have to be this way and through our mission, we want to change the statistic of slipping and failing in the first 45 days of recovery to 99% being successful and having an amazingly positive influence on society and our communities.

Our Vision -To be the world leader and chosen authority in understanding and adding soul and heart into individuals lives, and to dramatically impact the success rate of addictive behaviours through influential relationship building. To improve the inner growth of individuals and the sustainability of abstinence to enhance the life of our clients and their family and the communities that support them.

Podcast Music By:

https://soundcloud.com/vexento

https://www.youtube.com/user/Vexento

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ssvu2yncgWU

Napoleon Hill Your Right to Be Rich by Napoleon Hill Audiobook FULL

Napoleon Hill – Chapter 1- Definiteness of Purpose – Think Your Way to Wealth

 

This audio treasury of wisdom. Think Your Way to Wealth captures Napoleon Hill’s first encounter with Andrew Carnegie, who revealed the money-attracting strategy that Hill later made popular in classic books like Think and Grow Rich and The Law of Success. To buy the book or audio visit the link – http://amzn.to/2nNSATD In 1908, while working as a reporter for an inspirational magazine, Hill landed an interview with industrial giant, Andrew Carnegie. Hill had just one key question for the magnate: What is the secret to your success? Carnegie’s response electrified Hill and launched him on a lifelong mission to distill the steps to success into a clear, definite protocol that could be used by any motivated person. Think Your Way to Wealth captures Carnegie’s initial advice, how-to’s, practical steps, and concrete directions-all of which formed the basis for Hill’s groundbreaking books, and jump-started the field of business motivation. Napoleon Hill was born in 1883 in a one-room cabin on the Pound River in Wise County, Virginia. He began his writing career at age 13 as a “mountain reporter” for small town newspapers and went on to become America’s most beloved motivational author. He passed away in November 1970 after a long and successful career writing, teaching, and lecturing about the principles of success. Hill established the Napoleon Hill Foundation as a non-profit educational institution whose mission is to perpetuate his philosophy of leadership, self-motivation, and individual achievement. Napoleon Hill was born in Wise County, Virginia. He began his writing career at age 13 as a “mountain reporter” for small town newspapers and went on to become America’s most beloved motivational author. His work stands as a monument to individual achievement and is the cornerstone of modern motivation. His most famous work, Think and Grow Rich, is one of the best-selling books of all time. Hill established the Foundation as a nonprofit educational institution whose mission is to perpetuate his philosophy of leadership, self-motivation, and individual achievement. If you have read all of Napoleon Hill’s books, heard his lecture from the audio called “Your Right To Be Rich,” then you know how valuable his information is. This book is no different, what is contained in this book will give you a clear look into the two of the greatest minds in history. Those minds are, Napoleon Hill and Andrew Carnegie. Hill asked questions to Carnegie, which Carnegie gives Hill deep, thought-provoking answers that give you clear cut answers. Carnegie tells you how to develop faith, how to take control of your own mind to attract the things you want in your life. You get step by step instructions on how to use the Law of Attraction clearly without all the mumbo jumbo and confusion that are out there on the topic of Law of Attraction. I think this should have been released before Think and Grow Rich, this book seems to compliment all the later work. It just ties things up to make you completely understand things on a deeper level. There is so much information in this book that it is priceless and timeless. UPDATE: I just wanted to update my review of this product. In my honest opinion, this information should be read before Think and Grow Rich. The reason I say that is because in this PRICELESS interview, Carnegie gives the exact secrets on how to get anything you want in a step by step formula. I have been listening to this in my car on the way to work, the more I listen to this, I feel like I am right there in the interview as if it is happening. It gives me insights on how to improve in areas where I might be off slightly in doing the right step(s) to get to where I need to go. Carnegie understood this information so well that by the time I’m finished listening to this audio, I seem to understand certain sections more clearly. It is hard to explain, but if you’re serious about success in any area of your life, you owe it to yourself to buy this audio if you don’t have time to buy the book or kindle. Plus, just by listening to the audio, you’re reprogramming your subconscious mind for success. If you listen to it long enough, it will just start becoming a part of you to the point where you start doing the right things to get you on track to achieve your goals.