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How to have the best sex ever in your relationship - Stefan Neff

How to have the best sex ever in your relationship…

How to have the best sex ever in your relationship!!

I will let you in on a little secret about love and romance. …

I will also show you how to live in bliss every waking moment of your life!!

Play like a kid in the bedroom yes, I said it play as if you were a teenager in your relationship.

I play, I have fun in life. I stopped worrying about what others think of me, this has brought me amazing joy more love in my relationship than ever before. 

One of the most important aspects of life is to live with more passion every day.

Passion is key towards love, sex, joy and almost all other gratifications in life.

Here are some key life points that I can help you with towards having the best sex in your life. …

Working we us you will understand more about yourself than ever before.

Are you ready willing and committed to taking control of your sex life?

1. I’ll show you how to have so much natural sex that your friends will want to know your secrets. You’ll never miss another late-night intimacy again!

2. I’ve got a simple system so good that you’ll be able to indulge in sex guilt-free!

3. Looking for some extra romance, I’ve got some magic tricks up my sleeve that will rock your sex world, (and your lover)!

4. I’ll show you how to get your partner sexually aroused again and have all eyes on you!

5. Are you sleeping alone and feeling sexually frustrated? I’ve got a simple solution that will have you skipping along and leading the way in the bedroom!

Do you have the courage to have more sex than ever before?

When your answer is yes let us talk about how you can live with more passion in the bedroom!!!

Email me at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 for more about how you can live your life with love in your heart and find true happiness in your life!!!

Thank You from Stefan Neff

Thank You from Stefan Neff

What Happens When Our Partner Stops Sleeping Beside YOU Our Happiness - Stefan Neff

What Happens When Our Partner Stops Sleeping Beside YOU?

What Happens When Our Partner Stops Sleeping Beside YOU?

The feeling is so self-defeating when our Spouse is sleeping in the spare bedroom.

But when our loved one sleeps in the spare bedroom they feel a sense of individualism but the real truth is that one or both may have a rejection issue going on within their mindset, is this a healthy relationship. (I don’t think so. …) The studies show one out of four married couples has Rejection issues influenced by their childhood. 

But is it the end of the world if married couples sleep in different rooms or split beds. (No the world isn’t going to end) because your partner isn’t sleeping with you but, I believe that there is a solution to any problem. 

Talking about your feelings and what is bothering us is one of the best ways to deal with any problem.

Seeking out professional help is also a great avenue towards self-help.

Reading relationship books are a great way to learn more about our truths.

In my opinion, the most effective way to deal with relationship issues is to face what is bothering us, it doesn’t matter how painful it may be in the beginning because if you let it fester for long periods of time we will never become happy. Our relationships become stagnate and the love turns into hatred. …

Does sleeping in separate beds lead to sexless marriage?

How to Fix a Sexless Marriage, According to Sex experts

1. Break Down the internal issues. …

2. Talk About Passions in life. …

3. Avoid Acting Passive-Aggressively. …

4. Nurture the Emotional Feelings Within Each other. …

5. Face the Real Issue. …

6. Stop Comparing It to other people’s sex life. …

7. Don’t Try to Relive the past.

8. Listen to each other. …

The ultimate answer to all the issues in a relationship can be summed up in how we perceive ourselves the situations how we create our own self-love and self-awareness towards life.

I highly recommend taking a self-care class we have created for couples that really are committed to having more sex more love in their relationships.

If you have the courage to create change in your sexless marriage please reach out and ask me how I have more sex within my life at the age of 50.

To work with us contact me via email at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 to find out more about creating happiness in your relationship with yourself and others.


Thank You from Stefan Neff

Thank You from Stefan Neff


Can you be defensive and avoid the truth and still be happy in your life?

Can you be defensive and avoid the truth and still be happy in your life?

The direct answer is I don’t think so — and this is why?

When you are defensive that means that fear is approaching…

When you avoid the truth means it is true!!

Yes, it’s true we are creatures of self-preservation even though the truth will set us free from all the pains we are experiencing. 

So why do we run away? 

If we have to face the truth means we may think that our thoughts are wrong! 

I say there is never wrong answers towards the truth only happiness when we face the truth. When we stop the balance of life and avoid means that our feelings will stay with us until the end of your life. 

I don’t want that in my life and I believe that you don’t either. Well, I expect that you want to face what is bothering your life! Yes?

Ask yourself: 

Do I Want More Out Of Life?

Do I want to live without avoiding my issues?

Do I want to Stop defending myself when the truth is in front of me?

Fill in the blanks for yourself and that will be the first step towards self-acceptance first and for most.

If you want to stay where you are now by avoiding and defending then so be it. Then your life balancing act will stay in the victim mode until the end of your life!!

But on the other hand, you are more than willing to accept the truth and move towards living the life you desire then make it your mission and vision to change the way you think!!!

If you have the courage to feel, think & behave differently we are here to serve you towards the life you want!!

To work with us contact me via email at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 to find out more about creating happiness in your relationship with yourself and others.

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Who is in charge of the emotional breakdown in your relationship - Stefan Neff

Who is in charge of the emotional breakdown in your relationship?

Who is in charge of the emotional breakdown in your relationship?

Let’s start from the top, shall we? 

All emotions start from an event in our lives, from someone saying or doing something in front of our eyes or we hear it from someone’s lips. These situations are what was stopping my happiness from happening. 

Why should I – or why must I have emotional upsets that cause me to have fear and anxious feelings that caused me to fail in my relationships in the past.

Because I didn’t know that I was creating my feelings within me!! I didn’t know I had choices about the emotional upsets that caused me pain, fear and anxious moments in my life at that time. 

Even now I forget that I am creating my emotional feelings when I drop my guard down lol. 

I truly understand we are human and we do irrational things in life, but we don’t need to feel bad, sad or anxious when we have these moments of emotional upsets in our life.

Having to face what’s not working in your relationships, family life, or own personal thoughts when it comes to emotional upsets means you’re going to have to do something uncomfortable. Which is why a lot of people avoid it.

You might have to confront yourself, or maybe even let go of your irrational beliefs. But if you are unable or unwilling to do these uncomfortable things, you’ll end up tolerating a situation that doesn’t work to the point where it causes serious internal damage. 

Like I have said many times in my past posts is that we have the capability to fix our self-talk and inner dialogue on a daily basis. 

So why is it that we hold onto these emotional feelings that are holding us back from the life we want & desire. 

Because we are professional Musterbators, another word we must feel this way otherwise we won’t receive love & care from others. 

Why do I know this, because I was the best of the best Musterbators in the world… LOL!!

Self questions:

Am I a Musterbator?

Do I seek attention from others to feel good?

Do I awfulize some or all the emotional happenings in life?

Do I feel mad, sad or anxiousness when someone says or does something I don’t like?

Do I feel the world isn’t fair?

These are just a few questions that you can ask yourself when you feel upset at someone for saying or doing something that you think is against you!!

Remember that what others are saying or doing is a self-reflection of who we are… Yes, that includes ME! 

I was thinking this way in the past, how bad the world is, how mean people were and so on…

How can you change from living in an emotional upset to living the life that you dream and desire every single day!!

There is a process that worked for ME and I know it will work for YOU.

If you have the courage to feel, think & behave differently we are here to serve you towards the life you want!!

To work with us contact me via email at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 to find out more about creating happiness in your relationship with yourself and others.

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The Things That Upset Us Are The Missing Puzzle Pieces To Our Happiness - Stefan Neff

The Things That Upset Us Are The Missing Puzzle Pieces To Our Happiness

The Things That Upset Us Are The Missing Puzzle Pieces To Our Happiness…

Why was this so important in my life?

When we look at the truth with open eyes we will find the real reason why!

I asked myself many open-ended questions about upsetting feeling in my life from the past! So what did I find out about? 

I was rejecting all the painful moments that caused me fear and anxiousness throughout my adult life… This is why I had such emotional feelings towards others that I thought were hurting me. The truth be told I brought that upon myself why that person was hurting ME!!

I always say, no one can hurt me unless I allow them too!!

Until I started to face that truth I would always have upsetting feelings in my life!!

When We Face The Truth Joy & Happiness Always follows!!!

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Is The Love In Your Relationship Seem Fuzzy - Stefan Neff

Do You Have The Courage To Fix Your Relationship?

Do you remember when you first started a relationship, how wonderful the feeling was? You couldn’t stop thinking about that moment in time… Yes, I remember so clearly like it was yesterday!!

Then one-day things started to feel FUZZY… Why is love so fuzzy I asked myself… Why am I feeling so uneasy about life and the people around me? Is there something wrong with me?? Well, the truth is my life was filled with temporary feelings and lasting for only a limited period of time; not permanent. 

Are your relationship goals scaring you?

If so, that’s a good thing…

The only goals worth pursuing are the ones that force you to move beyond your comfort zone… because that is where true growth happens.

And if you want to take your relationship to the next level, growth is required.

Pro-tip though: just because your goals are scary, that doesn’t mean they need to be overwhelming!

Any relationship goal, no matter how big or daunting, can be chunked down into a series of manageable, bite-sized steps.

And if you complete those steps one by one, you WILL achieve your goal — guaranteed!

Here’s the thing though. Figuring out exactly what those steps are, and the order you should take them in, can be easier said than done.

Working with us, we will share a powerful goal-driven technique that will help you gain valuable clarity into exactly what you need to do to achieve your goals.

This “unique” technique has helped many of our clients successfully build new found love in their relationships… rewrite and harness the passion within your life… add years to your sex lives, a new freedom to travel more and live the life you desire, and much more.

I’m confident it will help you achieve your goals faster and more easily, too!

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