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Think With A Open Heart - Stefan Neff

Black Or White Without Any Grey Areas In Relationships Are Problematic & A Waste Of Time And Energy!!!

Black Or White Without Any Grey Areas In Relationships Are Problematic & A Waste Of Time And Energy!!!

I know from experience that black and white thinking is so damaging in relationships because I was one of those guys who always thought that everything must be none black or white that means DO OR NOT DO…

Why did I think this way… Well as I was growing up my mother and father were both black or white thinkers. I remember that my father had to do things a certain way and same went the other way my mother had to do her way… This was what I learned as a child, not to blame my parents because that was what they were taught from their parents. 

Go figure monkey see monkey do LOL… 

Well, I was the little monkey learning from the influence in my life!

Who was your influence in your life that was teaching you everything that you are doing in life today that may be causing you major issues in your relationships now? 

Please don’t blame your parents because it is your choice to act on what you believe was the truth. You have your own choices that you make or made in your life right — We all have to take responsibility for our actions in life, even the ones that cause us hardships and painful moments in life. 

Do we have choices in our life, “YES WE DO” We can think and act badly towards others… We have choices to be angry, sad or even get upset at the ones who hurt us. Taking responsibility for all that happens to us and for us is one thing that can shift towards a grey way of thinking… 

Why is it important to be in the grey to save your relationships?

Well, this is why… If you want to right means Black all the time then there is room for the one whom you love!!!

If you want to say all or nothing then you may run into many more issues then you bargained for… I know the truth because I was that GUY LOL but no so funny when I didn’t know what to do when my wife got very upset with me I ran out the door and started to use alcohol to cope with the problem. 

Now I know what I was doing and am able to think on the grey side of life. “I DON’T NEED ALCOHOL ANY MORE”!!

No one can change my life… No one can make the choice for me until I faced the truth about how I was thinking!!

If you are thinking BLACK OR WHITE, let me help you fix that issue because I know how too…

The other option is to keep doing what you know best and live in what I call turmoil without any solution…

What do you want?

Who do you want to be?

Black Or White?

Do you really want to move into the grey area of life?

The choice is yours of course? 

I made my choice to change the way I do everything in my life…

Do You Have The Courage To Change Your Life To GREY!!!

You can contact us via email at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 to find out more about creating happiness in your relationship with yourself and others…

 

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Be The One Who Loves

Number #1 Relationship Coaching Team – With Stefan Neff & Tomoko Ota Neff

Relationship With Yourself Is So Important…

Why am I seeking love and acceptance from others!!

The best way I know how to express what I am feeling inside my thoughts are to tell you everything I know about happiness…

Why was self-acceptance so so very important to my happiness in the past?
Because my cup of happiness was half empty… – my heart was so lonely with sadness as a child, yes I had so many moments of fun and enjoyment but the sadness overpowered my happy times. Why, because I wanted to feel the love of others.

I wanted to be accepted by others no matter what!

These feeling had overpowered my life on a daily basis throughout my life, always seeking love well, I think we all want to be loved at some point in our lives.

My truth is I didn’t love myself enough to fill my own tank of self-love and care within my life on a daily basis.

That’s why I wasn’t happy…

No god or anyone else could make me happy — I am the only one that could fill my cup up towards happiness…

How do I expect anyone else to give me what I want when I didn’t give it to myself — hmmm… sounds like I was expecting others to make me happy — “YES” well, it was me that was stopping myself from happiness!!

Are you waiting for someone to make you happy? — well, you may wait forever for that to happen in your lifetime, that’s the truth because for those who wait for love will always be disappointed when love doesn’t COME…

What is the measurements of happiness to you?

Is it how many friends you have… Is it how big your house is!!
How nice your car is… well, you may wait for a lifetime for happiness to come into your life if are thinking that way!!

Do you want to wait for a lifetime for self-acceptance or do want to learn how to create your own self-care within yourself…
“Good question I said to the person looking back at me in the mirror of life”!

I believe we all have choices in life towards a happy life…
My question is to you is, when is your happiness coming into your life?

If your answer I don’t know… then that may be the time to accept that happiness isn’t for you!!

If you are waiting for a magical potion to show up on your doorstep from Amazon then you will never be happy… well, that what I was doing in my life, I was waiting for years and years for happiness to show up from somewhere else than within my own heart and soul!!!

Answer these question…

Do you have the courage to be happy?

Do you want to know happiness?

Are you willing to do anything towards happiness?

Would you spend time on yourself?

Would you ask someone to help you help yourself with happiness?

Do you agree or is happiness NOT on your bucket list???

To help you help yourself, my Wife, & I have created a process that works 100% Guaranteed…

We made a choice in our lives to be happy!!

We also know what anger, sadness and unhappiness feelings are all about because we hated life each other and people around us. Until we made a choice to be happy…

You can contact us via email at stefanneff53@gmail.com or text me at 778-551-0419 to find out more about creating happiness in your relationship with yourself and others…

 

Personal Relationship Coaching

Why for so many years did I get upset when I was challenged by my wife…  well, I was afraid of being wrong and to be judged by others, especially the person I loved.

Why was so painful, well I had a subconscious pain point that was stamped within me that I didn’t want to face.

How do I deal with this pain? – Face it accept it otherwise this pain would affect my happiness until I die… Do I want to hold onto these pain points? Yes, because this gave me a reason to feel a thought from my past memories…

So many times in my life I have asked myself, do I really want to live like this and my answer is “NO WAY MAN”… So why do I keep this most upsetting thought? I didn’t believe for one second that I created my own pain but the truth is I do create everything that happens in my life, who else creates my life!! Who else makes me sad or mad?

Not my wife, not my children and definitely not the people that are around me… I do it all on my own with no ones help indeed… 

My question to you is, do you feel like this in your life?

Do you feel punished with fear and upsetting feeling at times?

Are people affecting your happiness?

At some point have you looked into the mirror and asked yourself am I unhappy? Is your life filled with these kinda moments of fear and anxiety? 

If so — there is a solution that my wife and I have created that will fix those issues… 

Do you want to live the life of your desires?

Would you do anything to fix it?

Is having a happy life worth it…

I truly believe so…

I know that my happiness is worth IT!!

To learn more about how you can create happiness in your life, contact us at stefanneff53@gmail.com or PM me to find out how you can stop from feeling upset, mad or sad in your life…

Stefan Oskar Neff Big Bang Soundcloud Podcast

Big Bang Sound Podcast Episode #8 Season Three – Clear Vision For Success

 

Welcome too Breakthrough To Success: The Real Truth. This podcast is devoted to getting people and families to be massively successful in all areas of their life. I want you to get ahead, no matter what your circumstances are, and this podcast is going to assist you with understanding exactly how to do that. Learn to build a very successful mindset, a successful family, and a successful you, all at the same time. Each week has a different focus: Week #1: The first week of each month is going to be devoted to self-empowering mindset. Really getting your mind in the game because your mindset is the most important part to being massively successful in your family life.  I’m going to bring on successful ideas that will help people faced the challenges of growing a powerful mindset for people to help themselves to the next level of clear clarity You’re going to learn from me what it takes to get where you want to be.

Our Mission – To create dynamic, easy to follow systems of coaching programs, sessions, groups and systems for people with addictive behaviours that create a powerful learning environment both in personal growth and life skills and inner knowledge of self-acceptance. To abstain from addictive behaviours and grow their mindset to outrageous levels of success. 

Why -There is a ton of struggling and suffering surrounding addictive behaviours today that is impacting people’s financial situations and families. Addictive behaviours in families lives are continually being destroyed because of addictions. It does not have to be this way and through our mission, we want to change the statistic of slipping and failing in the first 45 days of recovery to 99% being successful and having an amazingly positive influence on society and our communities.

Our Vision -To be the world leader and chosen authority in understanding and adding soul and heart into individuals lives, and to dramatically impact the success rate of addictive behaviours through influential relationship building. To improve the inner growth of individuals and the sustainability of abstinence to enhance the life of our clients and their family and the communities that support them.

Podcast Music By:

https://soundcloud.com/vexento

https://www.youtube.com/user/Vexento

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ssvu2yncgWU

Lil Dicky earth

Lil Dicky – Earth (Official Music Video)

 

For more information on how to save the Earth go to https://welovetheearth.org To purchase or stream Earth go to https://LilDicky.lnk.to/Earth “Earth” Song: Written by: David Burd, Benjamin Levin, Magnus August Høiberg, Josh Coleman and Jamil Chammas Produced by: Benny Blanco and Cashmere Cat Mixed by: Serban Ghenea Vocals by: Lil Dicky Additional Vocals by: Justin Bieber, Ariana Grande, Halsey, Zac Brown, Brendon Urie, Hailee Steinfeld, Wiz Khalifa, Snoop Dogg, Kevin Hart, Adam Levine, Shawn Mendes, Charlie Puth, SIA, Miley Cyrus, Lil Jon, Rita Ora, Miguel, Katy Perry, Lil Yachty, Ed Sheeran, Meghan Trainor, Joel Embiid, Tory Lanez, John Legend, Backstreet Boys, Bad Bunny, Psy, Kris Wu Choir Vocals by: Denise Janae, Naari Michele, Tiffany Palmer, Onitsha Shaw, George Potts, Mark Hood Drums/Percussion by: Chris Dave Choir Coordination by Anthony Evans for Sherman James Productions Music Video: Created by RYOT Directed By: Nigel Tierney Federico Heller Produced By: Zeda Stone Michael Broccolo Nigel Tierney German Heller Executive Producers: Mike Hertz Scooter Braun Zeda Stone Nigel Tierney Head of Story: Steven Gordon Art Direction: Ricky Baba Patrick Moss Music Video Mixer/Sound Designer: Erik Lohr Production Supervisor: Crystal Tierney Animation Producer: German Heller Head of Production: Matías Bossié Art Director: Federico Carlini CG Producer: Santiago Tereso Animation Producers: Marco Lococo Julian Dorado Head of CG – Alejandro Turano Live Action Intro: Director – Tony Yacenda MV Executive Producer – Jacki Calleiro MD / Executive Producer – Lisa Margulis EP / Head of Production – Elizabeth Minzes Producer – Jona Ward Director of Photography – Adam Bricker Production Designer – Almitra Corey Casting – Good People Casting / Cindy Estada Editor- Patrick Tuck / Rock Paper Scissors Prop Master – Rose Leiker Prop Asst. – Christopher Labasbas Set Decorator – Lizzie Boyle Lead Person – Minh-Triet “Anthony” Nguyen Set Dresser – Andy Rines Gang Boss – Ed Lassak G+E Driver – Renee Guy MoHo Driver- Martin Perez Artist Make Up – Golden Sun Shyne Artist Hair – Andrea Jackson Cast Make Up – Jacque Piotrowski Stylist – Chloe Badawy Asst. Stylist – David Gangel Craft Services – Yaxkin Garcia Medic – Gary Gomez Studio Teacher – Phil Eisenhower Production Assistants: Mike Fecadu Zach Dripps Olivia Hogan Ed Craig Travis Fischer Steve Hulse Akeem Glenn Marc Schnieder Logan Alexander Kira Colas Talent: Ring Leader – Vallon Deville Middle Kid – Gabriel Brown Younger Kid – Devin Carey Skater – Cree Kawa Convenience Store Owner – Jason Nott BG Talent Casting – Atmosphere Casting Trailers: Trailer Editor: Mary Ahlman Graphic Design: Ricky Baba Sound Design: Erik Lohr Website: Tutorial Video Editor: Mary Ahlman Tutorial Video Editor: Ryan Eakins Tutorial Video Editor: Eric Martin Sound Design: John Adams Color: Lookwell Color // Loren White VFX & Motion Graphics: DYAD // Fernando Rodriguez Post Supervisor – Jason Alexander Graphic Design – Aisha Yousaf Web Producer: Eric Day Lead Web Developer: Zach Tauber UX/UI Design: Predrag Markovic Copywriter: Jeff Sloniker Special Thanks: The Leonardo DiCaprio Foundation Justin Winters Karl Burkhart Edward Bell Scooter Braun Projects Shauna Nep Jackie Augustus Rogers & Cowan Sacks & Co

Stefan Oskar Neff Big Bang Soundcloud Podcast

Big Bang Sound Podcast Episode #5 Season Three – The Crazy Life We Live Hosted By Stefan Oskar Neff

 

Welcome too Breakthrough To Success: The Real Truth. This podcast is devoted to getting people and families to be massively successful in all areas of their life. I want you to get ahead, no matter what your circumstances are, and this podcast is going to assist you with understanding exactly how to do that. Learn to build a very successful mindset, a successful family, and a successful you, all at the same time. Each week has a different focus: Week #1: The first week of each month is going to be devoted to self-empowering mindset. Really getting your mind in the game because your mindset is the most important part to being massively successful in your family life.  I’m going to bring on successful ideas that will help people faced the challenges of growing a powerful mindset for people to help themselves to the next level of clear clarity You’re going to learn from me what it takes to get where you want to be.

Our Mission – To create dynamic, easy to follow systems of coaching programs, sessions, groups and systems for people with addictive behaviours that create a powerful learning environment both in personal growth and life skills and inner knowledge of self-acceptance. To abstain from addictive behaviours and grow their mindset to outrageous levels of success. 

Why -There is a ton of struggling and suffering surrounding addictive behaviours today that is impacting people’s financial situations and families. Addictive behaviours in families lives are continually being destroyed because of addictions. It does not have to be this way and through our mission, we want to change the statistic of slipping and failing in the first 45 days of recovery to 99% being successful and having an amazingly positive influence on society and our communities.

Our Vision -To be the world leader and chosen authority in understanding and adding soul and heart into individuals lives, and to dramatically impact the success rate of addictive behaviours through influential relationship building. To improve the inner growth of individuals and the sustainability of abstinence to enhance the life of our clients and their family and the communities that support them.

Podcast Music By:

https://soundcloud.com/vexento

https://www.youtube.com/user/Vexento

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ssvu2yncgWU

Stefan Oskar Neff Big Bang Soundcloud Podcast

Big Bang Sound Podcast Episode #4 Season Three – I Want To Take Over The World

 

Welcome too Breakthrough To Success: The Real Truth. This podcast is devoted to getting people and families to be massively successful in all areas of their life. I want you to get ahead, no matter what your circumstances are, and this podcast is going to assist you with understanding exactly how to do that. Learn to build a very successful mindset, a successful family, and a successful you, all at the same time. Each week has a different focus: Week #1: The first week of each month is going to be devoted to self-empowering mindset. Really getting your mind in the game because your mindset is the most important part to being massively successful in your family life.  I’m going to bring on successful ideas that will help people faced the challenges of growing a powerful mindset for people to help themselves to the next level of clear clarity You’re going to learn from me what it takes to get where you want to be.

Our Mission – To create dynamic, easy to follow systems of coaching programs, sessions, groups and systems for people with addictive behaviours that create a powerful learning environment both in personal growth and life skills and inner knowledge of self-acceptance. To abstain from addictive behaviours and grow their mindset to outrageous levels of success. 

Why -There is a ton of struggling and suffering surrounding addictive behaviours today that is impacting people’s financial situations and families. Addictive behaviours in families lives are continually being destroyed because of addictions. It does not have to be this way and through our mission, we want to change the statistic of slipping and failing in the first 45 days of recovery to 99% being successful and having an amazingly positive influence on society and our communities.

Our Vision -To be the world leader and chosen authority in understanding and adding soul and heart into individuals lives, and to dramatically impact the success rate of addictive behaviours through influential relationship building. To improve the inner growth of individuals and the sustainability of abstinence to enhance the life of our clients and their family and the communities that support them.

Podcast Music By:

https://soundcloud.com/vexento

https://www.youtube.com/user/Vexento

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ssvu2yncgWU