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Stefan Oskar Neff Big Bang Soundcloud Podcast Season Three

Big Bang Sound Podcast Episode #1 Season Three – Day Of New Beginnings

 

Our Mission – To create dynamic, easy to follow systems of coaching programs, sessions, groups and systems for people with addictive behaviours that create a powerful learning environment both in personal growth and life skills and inner knowledge of self-acceptance. To abstain from addictive behaviours and grow their mindset to outrageous levels of success. 

Why -There is a ton of struggling and suffering surrounding addictive behaviours today that is impacting people’s financial situations and families. Addictive behaviours in families lives are continually being destroyed because of addictions. It does not have to be this way and through our mission we want to change the statistic of slipping and failing in the first 45 days of recovery to 99% being successful and having an amazing positive influence on society and our communities.

Our Vision -To be the world leader and chosen authority in understanding and adding soul and heart into individuals lives, and to dramatically impact the success rate of addictive behaviours through influential relationship building. To improve the inner growth of individuals and sustainability of abstinatanc to enhance the life of our clients and their family and the communities that support them.

What you will receive from our life-changing High-Performance Recovery Coaching. You will create a well-balanced lifestyle that most individuals only dream of having, you will create inner self-acceptance from whatever life has thrown at you. You will be able to deal with stressful situations and release anxiousness that is stopping you from living the life that you deserve. Our Coaching will guide you to have the tools necessary to cope with urges that are surrounding your addictive behaviours and unhelpful thoughts and feelings. Life will never be the same as your smile will glow from ear to ear and turn a dark room into the light of hope in your life like nothing else on this planet. The freshness of your life will feel like you’re tasting a freshly picked apple off the tree of unconditional love. Step forth into the life that you desire today…

 

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Breakthrough To Recovery With Thank You Life 101

Why Did Drugs Feed My Pain?

Why Did Drugs Feed My Pain

 

Chapter 2

 

With what I thought would be good for my pains wasn’t always good for my soul in the long-term race to the end result that I was looking for. What were the issues that I was craving in my life? Well, the one most important thing I wanted was to be loved, I needed acceptances from my parents so much I could taste it in the drug that consumed me at the age of thirteen years old. The trap had been set in my thoughts and overpowered my brain that was shaping me up to be a needy person, I was always seeking attention from others to fill my cup with love. I was a lonely child when sitting in my room late at night, I remember always turning on the heater when my parents went to sleep. The noise of the Furness soothed my loneliness as if my mother was holding me in her arms. I use to go into the basement and even turn on the clothes dryer to get the warmth and sounds so I never felt alone. I would fall asleep on top of the dryer and even in the middle of the night. I would repeat the same patterns into my teens even when I smoked drugs, the pain wouldn’t go away from my thoughts. I even tried to use warm milk at night but all that did was make me wet my bed. You see I was a bedwetter for most of young life, from the ages of three years old and up to the age of fourteen or so give or take a few years. I was ridiculed as a child for being a bedwetter from my parents most of all the neighbourhood kids in my small elementary school that I attended. I hated the feeling of being teased as a child. I would cry myself to sleep most nights. I noticed when I started to smoke cigarettes at thirteen I was king of my own destiny, I could feel strong as if I couldn’t be hurt. Then when drugs came into my life, the pain was starting to disappear but as soon as the high went away the pain came right back the next morning. I never knew then that I was in the circle of no return but at least I knew the pain would go away for a little while. Yes, that is what I said the drugs worked only for the short term pain just like prescription drugs that doctors prescribe to their patients when they are hiding from there inner pains. I truly believe that pain comes from our past thoughts that we create every day we are here on this planet. When I was a kid I wanted to be heard from my parents, but I was told to mind my own business and just do what you are told. Do your homework do your chores and we can talk about it later. I waited for the talk but the talk never came. What the heck is going on I thought to myself, I did my work so when can I get what I asked for? I never believed that I deserved anything that I asked for in life. I only got what was provided to me. Was this all there was in life a bucket full of promises from the people who had raised me and was supposed to love me unconditionally? Why me I thought, am I that bad am I not worth it be given what I asked for in life. I couldn’t understand the whole scheme of life as I was growing up.  I only knew if I could only please them more I could receive more love and appreciation from my parents. Ok enough doom and gloom about my childhood, let’s talk business now!

 

How to stop the doom and gloom in life? I will tell you that life is very hard when YOU MAKE IT HARD!! Life can be and will be fun when you open up to new possibilities towards what you want not what you don’t want to happen in life. If you want joy and happiness you will receive it when you let go of fears that is holding you back from those most joyful moments in life. There might be roadblocks in your way but those are to make you stronger. If you think they are to stop you from what you want then you will stop moving towards your ultimate goal and that is happiness.

 

I always thought people were trying to hurt me so they were because I wanted to receive pain in my life. I wanted people to feel sorry for me when I was a small child so people did just that. I got what I asked for in my life for so many years. My plan worked out just as I laid it out. I would wet my bed to receive attention from my parents. I would fail my classes in school to have people feel sorry for me, to look upon me as if there was something wrong with me. I got it right the first time, I did get my pleasure of having my parents see me as a dysfunctional little boy that couldn’t do anything right.

 

I needed my parents for my pleasure to feel this way for most of my life even up until I was 40 years old. I never understood this until I found a solution to my life.

 

Chapter 3 will be coming tomorrow evening!!!

 

Stefan Oskar Neff in the mountains nature sunset summer

17years old boy Mind Blowing Experience. 依存症回復施設でも変わらなかった子のマインドが変わった瞬間【Japanese Subtitle】

 

 

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3 Reasons You Should Love Yourself More – Law Of Attraction

 

Have you ever wondered why we find it so easy to love other people – and so difficult to love ourselves? We have been taught that loving ourselves is selfish or conceited in some way.

But this simply isn’t true. http://bit.ly/2P1MvgL In this video I give you 3 reasons you should lover yourself more AND 7 tips to accomplish this. I’ve attached a FREE download to help you stay more positive, click the link above to download! Transform your life and career with this FREE training: The 7 Pillars of True Life Transformation! http://bit.ly/2OQidl3

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I want to take you on a journey. A man’s journey, from self-indulgent zero to empathetic hero. On the journey to finding my purpose, I crossed continents, chased dreams, fought nightmares and found, that all the crazy hair-brained things I did to “protect myself” never really helped protect me at all. They only slowed me down from finally arriving at an understanding of who I am and why I’m here.

It was only when I met a kindred spirit, a woman who was equally as troubled, and searching to escape her family, that I began to wake up to the nightmare I called my life. My whole world was turned upside-down in the blink of an eye, and it left me wondering who was crazier me or her.

Was my meeting this woman fate? Or was it a desperate act of a self-destructive man, with only one possible outcome? Was this woman going to do me in, or was she my one chance at redemption? In order to find out, I was going to have to let go of everything that I claimed as my personal right as a man, and look in the mirror with clarity and honesty.

There are moments in life where we make choices that may not serve us in life. We drift along without asking the tough questions. This is a story about the choices that I made answering those questions, and my gradual awakening to what life is really all about.

My ultimate goal for everyone is to maximize results!

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Your Relationship With Money – Law Of Attraction Is Key To Your Success

Your relationship with money determines your financial future. Your hierarchy of values dictates your financial destiny. People who don’t value money keep spending it and make it disappear. So that’s why the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. If you are not going to put wealth up as one of your highest values, you are not likely to manifest wealth in your life. You have to have it up on the value list if you want to manifest it. To learn more about building inspired wealth, consider my online learning program: BUILDING INSPIRED WEALTH: https://drdemartini.com/learn/course/… Determine your Values on Dr Demartini’s FREE Online Value Determination Process: http://www.drdemartini.com/values/?tk=915

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I’d like to tell you a story.

It’s about WHY I do what I do, and why I’d like to help YOU create a compelling vision for your life, cultivate daily success habits, and create a powerful action plan that pulls you towards your vision every single day!

You see, for the longest time, I struggled in many areas of my life…

I was unsure about who I was and what I wanted out of my life. I lacked passion and drive. I didn’t know how to set clear and attainable goals for myself and I seemed to live my life without any sense of direction.

I knew that I was capable of greatness but didn’t really know how to make that a reality. I struggled to gain clarity on how to live my best life. I was frustrated and feeling disconnected from the real me. You ever felt that?

Those dark and frustrating moments really caused me to look inwards and figure out what makes me tick.

I did whatever I could to move the needle of my life in a positive direction. I began studying personal development, psychology, and meditation. I finally learned how to set and achieve inspiring goals. I created daily habits and routines that set me up for success.

And you know what happened?

Things started to shift; I began my transformation.

I started to live a life I was more passionate about, and I gained a deeper understanding of who I was. This allowed me to connect more deeply with others, with my own ideas, and with the world around me.

By focusing on MY personal transformation, I became an even better version of myself.

Sure, I still have days that are up and others that are down, but by making my personal development an important part of my life, I know that I will continue to flourish.

This is WHY I do what I do. I love teaching, training, and coaching on personal development content because I’ve seen the impact first-hand.

I love helping people just like you become an even better version of yourself so you can go out and pursue your dreams and your grandest goals. Ultimately, I want to help you live your best life.

I shared my story with you because I want you to know me better, and I want you to know that I can help you too.

I said on Monday that I had something EPIC to announce…

Well, for the last few years, I’ve been working my butt off creating a new Book called From Zero To Hero!

(From Zero To Hero) Why the world Picked Me is a  personal development book designed to assist you in creating a compelling vision for your life, cultivating powerful habits of success, and developing an action plan to pursue your goals and dreams! 

My New Book Is Available On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/172663079X/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U__cgY4BbYF7ENCY

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The 8 Success Secrets of High Achievers – Law Of Attraction Behind These Pages…

 

Dr John Demartini shares the 8 Success Secrets of High Achievers. Visit DrDemartini.com for more information and chat LIVE online to the Demartini Team who are there to assist you. Participate in the FREE online Value Determination Process here: http://www.drdemartini.com/values/?tk=915

 

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Written By Stefan Oskar Neff From Zero To Hero Why The World Picked Me Sold On Amazon.com

I’d like to tell you a story.

It’s about WHY I do what I do, and why I’d like to help YOU create a compelling vision for your life, cultivate daily success habits, and create a powerful action plan that pulls you towards your vision every single day!

You see, for the longest time, I struggled in many areas of my life…

I was unsure about who I was and what I wanted out of my life. I lacked passion and drive. I didn’t know how to set clear and attainable goals for myself and I seemed to live my life without any sense of direction.

I knew that I was capable of greatness but didn’t really know how to make that a reality. I struggled to gain clarity on how to live my best life. I was frustrated and feeling disconnected from the real me. You ever felt that?

Those dark and frustrating moments really caused me to look inwards and figure out what makes me tick.

I did whatever I could to move the needle of my life in a positive direction. I began studying personal development, psychology, and meditation. I finally learned how to set and achieve inspiring goals. I created daily habits and routines that set me up for success.

And you know what happened?

Things started to shift; I began my transformation.

I started to live a life I was more passionate about, and I gained a deeper understanding of who I was. This allowed me to connect more deeply with others, with my own ideas, and with the world around me.

By focusing on MY personal transformation, I became an even better version of myself.

Sure, I still have days that are up and others that are down, but by making my personal development an important part of my life, I know that I will continue to flourish.

This is WHY I do what I do. I love teaching, training, and coaching on personal development content because I’ve seen the impact first-hand.

I love helping people just like you become an even better version of yourself so you can go out and pursue your dreams and your grandest goals. Ultimately, I want to help you live your best life.

I shared my story with you because I want you to know me better, and I want you to know that I can help you too.

I said on Monday that I had something EPIC to announce…

Well, for the last few years, I’ve been working my butt off creating a new Book called From Zero To Hero!

(From Zero To Hero) Why the world Picked Me is a  personal development book designed to assist you in creating a compelling vision for your life, cultivating powerful habits of success, and developing an action plan to pursue your goals and dreams! 

My New Book Is Available On Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/172663079X/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U__cgY4BbYF7ENCY

From Zero To Hero: https://thankyoulife101.com/from-zero-to-hero/

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The Secret Of The Law Of Attraction

How To Stay Focused In Life – Learn How To Use The Law Of Attraction Principles To Get What You Want In Life…

 

If you fill your day with high priority actions that inspire you your day won’t fill up with low priority distractions that don’t. If you don’t plant flowers in the garden of your mind, you’ll forever pull weeds. To stay focused in life, you have to have a clear mind on what is most important to YOU. If you would love to learn more on how to master your life, consider my online learning program DAY OF MASTERY. Click HERE to sign up now: https://drdemartini.com/learn/course/…

 

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I’d like to tell you a story.

It’s about WHY I do what I do, and why I’d like to help YOU create a compelling vision for your life, cultivate daily success habits, and create a powerful action plan that pulls you towards your vision every single day!

You see, for the longest time, I struggled in many areas of my life…

I was unsure about who I was and what I wanted out of my life. I lacked passion and drive. I didn’t know how to set clear and attainable goals for myself and I seemed to live my life without any sense of direction.

I knew that I was capable of greatness but didn’t really know how to make that a reality. I struggled to gain clarity on how to live my best life. I was frustrated and feeling disconnected from the real me. You ever felt that?

Those dark and frustrating moments really caused me to look inwards and figure out what makes me tick.

I did whatever I could to move the needle of my life in a positive direction. I began studying personal development, psychology, and meditation. I finally learned how to set and achieve inspiring goals. I created daily habits and routines that set me up for success.

And you know what happened?

Things started to shift; I began my transformation.

I started to live a life I was more passionate about, and I gained a deeper understanding of who I was. This allowed me to connect more deeply with others, with my own ideas, and with the world around me.

By focusing on MY personal transformation, I became an even better version of myself.

Sure, I still have days that are up and others that are down, but by making my personal development an important part of my life, I know that I will continue to flourish.

This is WHY I do what I do. I love teaching, training, and coaching on personal development content because I’ve seen the impact first-hand.

I love helping people just like you become an even better version of yourself so you can go out and pursue your dreams and your grandest goals. Ultimately, I want to help you live your best life.

I shared my story with you because I want you to know me better, and I want you to know that I can help you too.

I said on Monday that I had something EPIC to announce…

Well, for the last few years, I’ve been working my butt off creating a new Book called From Zero To Hero!

(From Zero To Hero) Why the world Picked Me is apersonal development book designed to assist you in creating a compelling vision for your life, cultivating powerful habits of success, and developing an action plan to pursue your goals and dreams!